it was going viral online when Matthew Stafford's wife came out bet she said that she used to date his backup quarterback in college she did it to make him jealous well she came out again I guess recently kind of quote unquote ripping all the insecure men for the reaction to her sleeping or dating uh her husband Matthew sty College backup QB and she had a caption in her post saying uh realizing how many insecure men there are out there so grateful I married the complete opposite she said in her recent social media post um I guess I I'll give my my take on here listen I mean are there insecure men out here do we do do men have insecurity of course of course we do but at the same time this conversation to me ain't got nothing to do with the insecure men it's about there's certain things as a wife and as a husband that you just keep inh housee and especially in this position I think any position you keeping in house I wouldn't want Mar girl and I'm not some big star well my girl going around saying she slept with my backup defensive tackle like that or dated I know we're assuming they SLE together but dated whatever my thing is this why say it why what's the win and you saying that you know you're with one of the Premier players and quarterbacks in in the the NFL he plays for the LA Rams he's in Los Angeles one of the biggest markets Super Bowl champion and it's the offseason at that meaning that in the media it ain't much to talk about right now Kelly so for you to bring this up you had to know that it had the potential to go viral and my thing is I think you you did know and you just didn't care because that's what you wanted you know you're on a podcast I don't know if it's your podcast or your friend's podcast or whatever the case may be you're on it and we all want if you got a podcast a digital show you want those viral moments but don't do it at the expense of your husband now again is it that big of a deal no you're still married he's good but I guarantee Matt came home after you know seeing this online seeing it go you know in all the Articles and and tweets and all the trolls maybe his teammates joked with him whatever I'm sure he came home that night like like Kelly what we doing like why you put that out there like I'm sure is she is she admitting to intercourse because that's what it sounds like she didn't say I didn't the guy I just dated him she didn't say that so the original thing was I dated meaning every took it and said that means right which I mean let's be real if you're dating somebody especially in college but if you're dating somebody unless you're celibate n out of 10 you probably are having sex but she never but she wasn't but that's not how I took it though I took it as in she was with Matthew Stafford and then she said she went on the side and was dating whatever that means so that means were you actually just with Matthew Stafford and and and I'm gonna go out with him tonight and and and that don't mean you had I didn't read it like that I I didn't read like she like cheated on M I read it like her and Stafford was kind of like on some on and off and and but he was kind of playing games so during this particular time she was single but she knew she wanted Stafford but Stafford was on you know he young B quarterback around she said I'm gonna make him jealous so she went Point here's the here's the point to I'm trying to help her out and hope that she that's what she meant we all know what it meant but we're I'm trying to help her out because she had the opport opportunity to come out in this post and say I was just around and and with the backup but I never had sex with him she could have cleared the airway she did not that was my whole point in asking that question and how you took it compared to how I took it she had the opportunity at least to say I didn't really embarrass my my family I was just talking and I I didn't him you know what I mean like she had the opportunity homie she even looks worse now to me because you had the opportunity