so um anyway so I'm having an event in Sonoma next week oh cool it's for this organization called family equality and in the spirit of inclusivity I would really like to invite you to join us oh I appreciate that thank you I don't really have an interest in being friends with Katie let's just be clear there's no like reconciling here we were never friends however I would never go out of my way to make someone feel left out I would love to join you thank you for inviting me and I do want to apologize to you for being nosy with my friend and I have proof did Heather dero call paps and he said yes it was never meant to I don't want to relitigate everything honestly no I don't no I want to move on from it but I want it's not important we don't know each other and I hope you actually get to know me now yeah this time yeah it is impossible to move forward with Heather when she doesn't let me finish a sentence Katie I did not call the paparazzi I swear to my children that day get your nails out of my face