What REALLY Happened Between Javon Kinlaw & Grant Cohn

we go back to the kinlaw moment because it just occurs to me that kinlaw is off the team he is no longer with the 49ers the statute of limitations I believe has ended what happened in this legendary meeting with you and John Lynch and Javon kinla he said why he was upset with me he expressed exactly what he had a problem with me doing and questions he had about how I did my job and I did my best to explain you know why I do and how I do what I do and really what he wanted to do was Express how much I had hurt him without getting into too much but it was a lot of emotion and I could only respect that I mean he was extremely vulnerable with me and I could only respect that so I answered any question he had and I'm not saying he likes me but he did shake my hand and never we never got into it again and after the uh NFC Championship game he was sitting at his locker I knew it was going to be the last time I saw him in that locker room and no one was talking to him because he didn't start so he's sitting there taking his tape off of his wrists and I go walk up to him I said hey Javon and he looks at me kind of surprised and says hey I said congratulations and he said thank you