let me start off by saying spoiler alert if you didn't watch the finale stop now but if you did and you me to talk like I do what the frig did we just watch can we just talk about how Devin was a completely different person on here after like Jen talked about that than he was on the show like completely different human the faces that he was making at Jen as if Jen was the one who doing something wrong oh no sir no here's what I think Devin truly honestly he needs to go get help like he needs to go get help because what we saw was not normal and I have to say I have a lot of compassion for mental health issues if you follow me you know that but what I don't like is when somebody tries to put their on someone else this was giving me major VPR vibes lots of displacement lots of gaslighting and minimizing somebody's feelings there was such a general lack of compassion I truly mean this like he needs to get help because this was not okay and I hope he does okay because there was just something not right here and I feel bad that Jen had to feel like I just feel bad that nobody said to Jen this is him like this is a him problem someone needs to tell me right now why we did not see this man come on the screen and talk to Jen because we know that's what he was there for Jonathan wouldn't have done any of this and now we know why I and I love Grant but I was like why wasn't Jonathan The Bachelor now we know why because they're putting him on Paradise with Jen if the two of them don't start anything before that that's what I think but that's what I hope I just feel bad I feel like they really did gen dirty this year with this group of guys except for a few of them and she deserved much more