hey guys and welcome back to another video in this video I'm going to be talking about why you should not pay too much attention to these online spaces such as red pill black pill these incel forums so on and so on because and let me get into the reasons now first and foremost even if there's truth to these forums sitting there spending too much time on these forums in these spaces just kind of sitting in that ecosystem that Ecco chamber in which you're picking up these ideas there's a difference even if it's something is true of accepting something versus sitting there making that your whole identity sitting there reminiscing in it sitting there let yourself so in those spaces and we all become victim to this because we all want an identity we all want to associate ourselves of some sort of ideology because it's easier to sit there for example let's let's use the red pill as an example Maybe they've opened your eyes to how women are not these perfect creatures that Disney movies in our society paints them out to be that they have lust that they cheat that they ghostman so on so on same with the black pill maybe we hear this all the time in society such that oh looks don't matter that much it's just about your personality you believe whatever you want you can make it happen and there is a lot of Truth to that I definitely believe you could if you believe and you set goals you could achieve them but at the same time we can't sit there and deny that a lot of the red pill beliefs are based in reality and a lot of the black pill beliefs are based in reality or whatever some guy says are in X form said for X said form so yeah like for a lot of guys they maybe they went to a break up maybe the girlfriend that they loved so much they thought she was so perfect she cheated on them maybe these they read these forums and they see that yeah the guys with the looks money and the status or in the black pill the guy with the looks they saying they're doing way better and all this personality and stuff doesn't necessarily have as much impact as they thought it did and I'm not saying that personality doesn't matter of course it matters but we can't deny the other end of the spectrum and when they find out these things they go through this period called like red pill rage and what a lot of these a lot of these guys aren't interest of doing you have these podcast I'm not going to name the podcast but you have these red pill podcasts putting men against wom you have um yeah black pill guys making these videos using Tinder just saying like oh look guys they're not that 6'5 Chad or it's just completely over they have no hope and that's just complete like this complete nonsense like to even sit there and believe that yeah obviously those 6'5 amazing looking dudes they get a lot of attention you see videos like there's that black guy mentioned 6'8 he just goes around USA and people are sitting there um people are sitting there like girls are just coming up to him and comping him on his looks and they're exchanging contact information that's only one side to the Spectrum and just because we see like oh some some dude on the internet getting attention they're also saying they're painting the picture in the way that they want to there's a truth to it but there's also not a truth to it same way with these red pill podcasts maybe some guy [Music] he sorry it was a busy street and it wasn't actually a stoplight so I kind of had to be very deliberate in crossing the street without getting myself hit but back to the point I was making just because some red pill guy like these guys in these podcasts they sit there and they purposely pick the most shallow girls to be on their podcast maybe some like Instagram model that bases her whole life around attention and followers and likes and posting her body in lwd lash vicious ways on the internet yeah of course if you sit there and put these people in a podcast you can sit there and paint a narrative like oh look these women are not so smart all all women just look at things this black and white picture and these spaces really take advantage of that and when you're in your gullible State I want to say gullible but when you're in that state of being where yeah t things are tough you're not getting the attention that you desire it's easy to sit there and fall a victim and these spaces once they real people in for a lot of people it takes a long time to ever get out of those spaces they become resentful they become bitter and again I'm not saying that there's no truth to a lot of things that they're saying yes women do cheat yes women do value like the they're hypergamous they value the highest man yes the looks are important the Height's important all these things yes are of extreme value but we can't sit there and say that there's not some like less attractive guy that doesn't have that money that doesn't have all these things they still able to sit there and find a girl that likes him and this is where I think like these these space online will just have you they'll paint the Nar narrative that maybe they'll show like some Tinder thing where the guy gets zero matches but they don't say like oh look you could Cod approach oh you could do Social Circle or you could geomax like they don't show all these other perspectives and I'm not saying they're saying all those other avenues are perfect but they don't sit there and express the whole perspective that yeah there's so many different ways that you can net yourself like a girlfriend or a girl that likes you so that's number one they reel the space in they they make you bitter they make you resentful and they keep you kind of Trapped two it just kind of makes you develop unrealistic expectations of what's true they're going to have you believing that like oh it's just like these Chads like they're just sleeping with thousands of girls and then everyone else is getting nothing in yeah the top guys are probably going to have the mo the best efficacy they're going to have the most overall success but do you really think that there's some guy that's sleeping off a thousand girls like and and other thousand guys are sleeping of none like no it's just completely ridiculous and like it sounds crazy to say that or you every chick is like hopping to the next guy or these guys in the space they'll sit there and talk about how like American women are so like difficult it's so difficult to and to deal with impossible to get but at the same time they'll say like oh there's been around the block and they've slept with every guy like you got to pick one side like how can you be difficult but at the same time be a and they'll say that oh this cuz CU she sleeps with that Chad but again what what Chad do we know to sleeping with a th a th000 girls like I'm sure there's a guy that has like a high body count that's sleeping up like a lot of different girls but let's be real is there one guy that's just saying to take or all the girls just lining up for this one guy no so that's another thing so then like you take and a lot of the guys like maybe they'll be in a relationship and they hear like this red pill advice right and they'll they'll they'll hear things about like oh you got to never be you never got to agree with them and they try to overgame and they try to do all these things to hold their frame or do X Y and Z and I'm not saying that there's not parts and fragments of their advice that you could take which will be beneficial but they'll sit there and just blindly follow these beliefs right pill is just like oh women are going to do this under these conditions or the black pill say that like oh you got to improve your looks and guys will do all these surgeries and again I'm not opposed to surgery anything if that's what you feel you have to do and it could even be in your benefit in a lot of situations but they'll just make blanket claims of like oh do your draw angle at this length for be ex Hider so on and so on and that may not apply to your specific facial structure that may not apply to your specific frame so but they just make General recommendations and you could just be sitting there doing a surgery that doesn't even benefit you and make you look worse perhaps or in the red pill you can sit there they're telling you to do all this advice to maintain your relationship to be a strong man and you do that and your girl all of a sudden thinks you're like you're resentful and bitter and she breaks up with you because you're just overly overly uh controlling and overly engaged in these space of guys are internet telling you what to do and think about like this if the guy is actually really getting a lot of wom I'm not saying everyone cuz I'm saying I for example make videos on this end I I myself do pretty decently with women and I have a lot of advice to give you guys but I'm doing this more so also to share my perspectives and yeah other guys like that as well but let's be real like if if guys have so much time to be sitting there hanging on forums and sitting there typing in like on the keyboard all day like are they really making that money they claim to be making are they really do they really get all those girls like if they have so much like how do they have so much free time if they're actually getting all those girls if they're actually making money if they're actually achieving their goals how do they have all this free time to sit there and type our Anonymous form or sit there and comment a bunch of YouTube in the YouTube comment section A bunch of videos so you got to take everything off a grain of salt and a lot of guys they develop these beliefs and sometimes very wacky beliefs on what what is truth and what is not truth just just based off of what they see on the internet and again I'm not saying there's saying to take that there's nothing truthful about what online spaces are saying but you got to really be careful what you say cuz you got to really be careful of what you're looking at because if you're not you're just going to sit there and waste your time sitting in these forums you can develop resentful bitter beliefs that that are going to really ruin your perspective and destroy your ability to relate and have friendships relationship some on so yeah that's pretty much it I hope you guys took something from this video I apologize for the little stuttering in the middle when I was trying to cross the street but I didn't want to get run over but yeah make sure to leave a comment down below like the video subscribe to the channel stay tuned for more upcoming content peace