well I always approach every role as a woman because I am I don't really think about that um I I do think there's a distinct lack of shame in society at the moment I think shame is very different to guilt guilt is a very useless uh emotion I don't know what you do with that but shame and regret and the lessons one can learn from that I think are very powerful um I think there's a lot of shaming um which I think I mean you just look at the way you attempt to parent children if you publicly shame them it can lead to uh rage it can lead to uh you know the the equal and opposite response in the person whereas you take them aside and explain things in private um I think private conversations are often far more powerful um than than public ones I'm not saying public ones are not important but um I I do think it's often um onetoone face- tace uh reconciliation type conversations are far more powerful often than public shaming I think there was someone there has been waiting for a long time and I don't mean people shouldn't be held to account