everybody want no I'm going to help you're a woman over 27 it's time to sell yeah 27 time to sell if you're a woman over 30 it's time to mark this on 50% off if you're over 35 it's time to put that on clearance if you at 40 it's time to put that at the outlet if you have 50 Salvation Army [Music] welcome to the truth Pusher channel in this video we're going to take a deeper dose into one of Kevin Samuel's talking points that women who want a high value man they better get him while they're young and we're going to explore this idea looking at Elizabeth Taylor's eight marriages and I know she's a celebrity from a different era but looking at her marriages as she aged some people can really learn something from this especially today we have a lot of average looking women who think they deserve a high value man I supposed to settle for a uh regular type dude so why should you get anything over then why should you get above average what do you mean settle for you should get are I see I see millionaires with average women all the time they don't have big chess tattoos either and two other kids man I'm just saying I want to no I mean let's be honest let's be honest why should an average woman say she's settling for an average man he don't got no money so if he don't have no money you ain't finding enough for no money I'm not finding enough for no you're you said you're six you said you're six you don't get money you get second shift at the plant I'm listening but the issue is so I got to settle for an average man that's not settling that's getting what you can afford to buy on the sexual Marketplace okay so if I wanted a high volume man what do I do be reincarnated in her day Elizabeth Taylor was well above average looking she was known for her beauty and her iconic roles in movies like Cleopatra but her personal life tells a different story and it resonates with some of the things Kevin Samuel spoke about you want of above average earning man you better get them young better get him young better get him young Elizabeth Taylor was just 18 years old when she entered her first marriage with Conrad Hilton Jr the heir to the Hilton Hotel Fortune at this age she had everything a wealthy well-connected husband and the world at her feet however when we examine all eight of her marriages will notice a gradual decline in the status of her Partners aligning with Kevin Samuels views that a woman's options diminish as her youth Fades and she becomes average instead of questioning what I say about the women I talk about when I say a four five or six is an average looking woman and average looking women don't get a above average earning men after they have that money now her second marriage was at the age of 20 to Michael Wilding a British actor who was 20 years older than her Wilding was a step down from her billionaire first husband but he was well respected in Hollywood then that marriage ended in divorce then at the age of 24 Elizabeth got married to Mike Todd a big-time film producer who was a major player in Hollywood he backed her in movies like The Giant but their marriage was cut short when he passed away unexpectedly by the time Elizabeth was 27 she was on her fourth marriage 27 to35 I call that the Danger Zone The Danger Zone The Danger Zone it's the age where a lot of college educated and or working independent career women start to realize uh I don't have a husband yet times sure have changed while the Modern Woman in the danger zone can't find husbands Elizabeth with collecting husbands like people collect stamps who cares if it was someone else husband her marriage to Eddie fiser was marred in Scandal and public scrutiny see Eddie he thought it would be a good idea to leave his wife Debbie Reynolds for Elizabeth and Elizabeth and Eddie relationship crumbled like a dry cookie breaking into pieces Elizabeth's personal life was turning into a fullblown reality show she'd gone from grieving Widow to a home wer by the time she was 30 years old you know at 30 years old you also got to realize that you know he doesn't have a he doesn't get the benefit of your youth somebody else had the benefit of that at 34 Elizabeth Taylor pulled on Angela Joe Lee or should I say Angela Jolie had pulled Elizabeth Taylor either way she did what many actresses do when they have undeniable chemistry with a co-star they marri them now that I think about it Angela joliee was in the danger zone when she hooked up with Brad so these independent working women in the danger zone are either looking for their first husband or somebody else's anyway Elizabeth married her Cleopatra co-star Richard Burton not once but Twice first in 1964 then again in 1975 their relationship was intense but it also showcased Elizabeth was no longer the young Scarlet of her earlier years now don't get me wrong she was still beautiful in her 30s but the billionaires were no longer knocking down her door and this is why you look this is why you look at what men with money pick after they have their money men worldwide C culture-wide when they have money after they have money if they get away from their wife what do they pick they don't go pick a older woman typically they go pick a young woman why because young women still have hope and yes Elizabeth was marrying good men but she had just as much status them if not more but as you can see in this interview with Johnny Carson men didn't just marry Elizabeth because she was a nice looking lady she seemed to have a good attitude and was hopeful as she aged I guess the case or the the model that men older men marry younger women I did my wife Alex is quite a bit younger than I on the other hand recently it seems that older women are marrying younger men in your case that's the way it worked see see my men have stayed the same [Applause] age ah I used to marry men 20 years older that's true and they've stayed the same age so you said enough already and you went the other way well no it's just you know around 40 I like it yeah that's good it's good age we saw I don't know if you noticed this but there's a trend especially with women of a higher socioeconomic status in their 40s they're tending to start dating young men have you noticed that I have and why is it because they cannot date men on the same socioeconomic status in the same age range so they got to date down in 1976 at the ripe age of 44 years old Elizabeth married John Warner a US senator from Virginia it was her seventh marriage and at the Time Warner was a politician with ambition and marrying a high-profile celebrity like Taylor could have increased his visibility and appeal and during their time together Taylor took on the role of a political wife but found the lifestyle unfulfilling compared to her acting career they ended up in divorce and now she was back on the market in her 50s as an average looking woman average man and average woman stand next to each other you know what he has on you that you don't have on him options time you got between the ages of 18 and 35 or between the first menual and 35 before you hit high-risk pregnancy after 35 you cross over to high-risk pregnancy after 40 you cross over into really no man's land effectively a man can be in his six and still If he if he has the resources and the ability he can still marry younger even have kids doesn't matter what a lot of women say well them young women don't want you for whatever men don't care about all the things yall think they care about men we know you only want us resources anyway so the fact that you got to spend resources to get a younger woman yeah welcome to manhood so what a lot of sisters need to recalibrate is stop looking at this as though we're your equals by the time Elizabeth hit her 50s the quality of suitors had declined her final marriage at the age of 59 to Larry fortinsky a construction worker that she met in rehab was a far cry from the billionaire Heir she married at the age of 18 Elizabeth Taylor life is a powerful Testament that shows you how dating options available to women narrow as they age and the quality of their Partners often reflect this shift it's it's no different than men with no money they have less options but Elizabeth's first marriage at age 18 was to a billionaire Heir and her last marriage at the age of 59 was to a construction worker even though she lived a celebrity life and married world famous men she humbled herself with a great attitude Found Love or companionship but many modern women today would say she lowered her standards and this is why many men stay away from older women today older women are too hard to deal with I talk to women every day and when I talk to professional women over 35 you get a laundry list of requirements and it's like and I and i' I've actually taken to the point to where record some women and I play it back in the session and I'm like listen to how you sound I'm like I didn't know I sounded like that I'm like that's how you go into the dating Market with your fist up ready to tell a man he ain't crap watch the positive attitude she has while she's telling Johnny Carson about her construction worker husband I mean this is one of the most famous woman ever who could have easily said her husband wasn't worth much but she didn't crap on him if Mary was a giant slom I mean I'm a I'm a bronze medal winner you're a Gold Medal winner right I mean I put it that way uh what makes this one seem like it's going to work well uh I I'm sure you were very cautious this last time that is true uh I never thought I'd get married again I wasn't married for 11 years which for me is history making and uh I think the circumstances under which we met you know to go through therapy together at Betty Ford you get to know each other really well right I mean there are no secrets right and we give each other great support in our sobriety and there is a kind of closeness that is like nothing show busy it's very private right and very profound you could tell this is a woman who would go to The Cheesecake Factory a woman that would marry a bus driver see regardless of all the mistakes she's made in her life she kept her positive energy Now Kevin Samuel often used to highlight the harsh realities for women particularly black women all he was doing was telling them what high value men desire fit friendly and feminine qualities that can be changed however he often focused on qualities that couldn't be changed women with kids or older women but in that case he was just trying to send a message to those who could still control those things so when you say you a boyfriend minded at 29 it makes sense because I don't think a lot of black women really see themselves being married until later in life you have blown your youth you spent the years between 18 and 35 doing whatever the hell you chose to do no heat no judgment but you blew your youth when your counterparts who were looking to marry up and marry well were getting married their Junior and senior year in college the first and second year after college they were married at 22 and 23 and you were laughing at those white girls and those Asian girls getting married at 22 you get married after college that's too young we need to go on girls trips and having our best life and hot girl sum all this other now they're 10 years into their marriage three kids deep and their husband's a VP of marketing somewhere and while you are still got a you know you and your cats are are living in a loft downtown driving your BMW in a middling career you ain't on no career track you blew your youth you blew your youth you can't get that back you don't have time to play any more games you don't have another 10 years to try to figure this out you'll be 50 you don't have time to keep playing games