[Music] Terell owens's ex-wife files for divorce after 3 days of marriage so Terell Owen's marriage lasted a grand total of 3 days yeah you heard that right three days they had been together for 5 years before deciding to tie the knot 5 years then suddenly 3 days after making it official they're done man I've seen summer heat waves last longer than that but seriously what changed in those 3 days was there something about the title of husband and wife that made everything go downhill so fast now let's dig a little deeper into this the story floating around is that she filed for divorce claiming he's broke but hold up if the man is broke why are you filing for alimony how do you divorce someone for being broke and then turn around and ask for money make it make sense this situation right here reminds me of ecclesiasticus 25 col 16 I'd rather dwell with a lion and a dragon than a keep house with a wicked woman that verse hits hard doesn't it it's saying you're better off facing wild beasts and dealing with a woman who's not right and looking at this situation it makes you wonder was Terell Owens dealing with a wicked woman all along but there's another angle to this if she claims he is bad credit and is financially unstable how in the world does she think she's going to get any serious money out of him is she just chasing a quick bag because that's what it looks like from the outside but this whole situation got me thinking what does the Bible say about a Godly marriage the Bible lays out what a Godly marriage should be built on love respect and mutual understanding Ephesians 5 verse 25 says husbands love your wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it that's some deep sacrificial love right there but here's the thing both Partners have responsibilities it's not about exploiting one another or getting into a marriage for the wrong reasons proverbs 31: 10 to 11 tells us who can find a virtuous woman for her price is far above rubies the heart of her husband doth safely trust in her so that he shall have no need of spoil this is the kind relationship that should be the goal a partnership where there's trust and value not a quick cash grab Proverbs 12:4 adds on this with a clear explanation of what a true wife is an excellent wife is the crown of her husband but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones conclusion so what are we looking at here Terell Owens after just 3 days found himself in a situation where his ex-wife was ready to cash out and for what this should be a wakeup call not just for him but for everyone don't be fooled by appearances don't rush into something just because it seems like the next logical step take the time to understand who you're really with and remember what the Bible says about a Godly marriage because at the end of the day it's better to be single than to be in a relationship that's just about drama and money and for those out here cheering on the so-called quick bag remember this what does it profit a man to gain the whole world but loses soul Mark 8:36 there it is folks Terell Owens 3-day marriage and a whole lot of lessons to be learned let's make sure we're living wisely and seeking out Godly relationships because anything less just isn't worth it let us know what you think in the comment section