yeah we are relatively new so he's kind of coming into it on the tail end when everything's already said and done um he is such an incredible supportive boyfriend and anything I do in my life he is supportive of he is excited to watch with me when it airs on Tuesday and he hasn't really I mean there's we haven't seen too much yet so but he's supportive he's he's great no problem at all I think I learned my lesson with the public relationships you know with certain people in certain cities and certain times it's a little inevitable that eventually it's going to get out to the open so I like to take control of the narrative if possible um but I also think there's a lot of beauty and keeping my relationship personal between us I have nothing to hide but at the same time I think it's going to be healthy for us to grow together for the people we want to be if it's not all publicized he's a sweet Texas boy like he is close with his family and his mom and his sister and her little ones and I just went to Texas to meet them recently and everyone was so sweet and welcoming and to see that he has such an amazing family made me feel so comfortable and to see their relationship be so healthy made me also you know look forward to the future because I think everyone I think it's nice to be with someone who has a good relationship with their family or if not working on it and trying so he's a sweetheart he I like to make fun of him sometimes because I do get the princess treatment and he takes such good care of me and I come home from a long day and run my back and give me so much love and takes he takes such good care of me so I couldn't have asked for any better right now