all right so let's talk about how to [ __ ] yourself secondly just all about your approach are you going in there acting like you're reading from a script or are you relaxed and going with the flow you're very organic guess what your tone how are you speaking when you approach him are you all turned up to the max cuz that might scare him or are you more sensual are you soft hey I could smell you from across the room and I just had to come over and ask you what are you wearing you should wear it more often or you have such a beautiful smile If I Was Your Woman I would keep a smileing your face every day just be natural with it