The Bachelorette season finale live updates who does Jen Tran choose and where are they now and then there were two Bachelorette gen Trans Journey will reach its conclusion tonight September 3rd on the season 21 finale of The Bachelorette on ABC but who will she choose Houston's freight company owner Devon strer or Miami based veteran and entrepreneur Marcus shabber when last we saw these two pairings Devin 28 was expressing his fears to Jen 26 following fantasy sweets and she responded with a reassuring I do love you you freaking idiot at the end of her fantasy sweet date with Marcus Jen also tried to calm his nerves telling the 32-year-old don't start thinking too much follow along as we see how it all shakes out I did fall in love with you and I was afraid to tell you because it's clear that you know what you want Marcus admitted can I live up to what Jen is saying that you need and I'm not giving you what you need I open my heart to you every second that I got Jen said and I think I got lost in it I know that I'm worth it I'm done hinging my future on somebody being afraid to lose me I'm done waiting around for somebody to get there I'm just done I genuinely had so much hope for us I'm afraid that I'm not going to find someone like you again Marcus said crying I have loved him hard and given myself but at this point I can't help but be in my head and worry if I'm making past mistakes and repeating history Jen began the segment before the date host Jesse Palmer met up with Marcus for a chat I've been struggling with this doubt of whether or not Jen and I are meant for each other he told Jesse every time we get to spend time together we are making progress and that connection gets a little stronger one of the things that I know for sure is that I care about her deeply I've never been so torn he added Jen didn't want to wait to meet Marcus at a romantic location before asking her questions I need answers from Marcus and I'm not going to wait any longer she said as she headed to his hotel room Jen admitted to Marcus she didn't know where his head was and reminded him we're running out of time I don't know if you see me in your future she added I felt like you weren't excited for the future it's scary to me I'm struggling for sure Marcus responded I'm not keeping anything from you I'm not keeping any answers from you I have my uncertainties but you make me want to keep trying I know that my feelings for you are real and that I can picture it with you he added I don't understand why it's so scary for me to move forward with someone I care so much about I have invested so much into us Marcus since the beginning Jen said it hurts me because I don't know what to deal with it now where am I supposed to go from here at the end of the day I know that I love you Marcus said through tears I don't want to give up on us Jen later then said in a confessional I have a pit in my stomach and I don't know what to do with it this isn't just a bachelorette finale it's also a chance for ABC to promote some of their newest shows that includes teasers from the golden Bachelorette which premieres in a few weeks and high potential as well as past members from Hulu The Secret Lives of Sister Wives appearing in the live audience and naturally more promos all aboard the Dr Odyssey trailer here starring Joshua Jackson and Don Johnson just for fun for their last romantic date in Hawaii Jen and Devon did a Hawaiian spiritual ceremony that happens before Big Life events Devon admitted that when I have a good thing I can't let go of the bad and I want to just accept the good for good Jen shared that she had fear of Abandonment when Jen said that it made me want to be there for her Devon said now that we've released our fears into the ocean it truly feels like a rebirth of myself Jen said later in the evening Devon told Jen I love the thought of forever with you at the end of the night Jen said Devon showed her what unconditional love feels like following Marcus's meeting with her family Jen asked the man point blank how he was feeling hoping that he dro the Albom she so wanted to hear he didn't instead he reiterated the pressure he feels to be a husband and a father he didn't experience and that he feels Jen deserves he teared up as he shared that he believes he can get there Jen was confused and showed her increasing frustration if I got and I love you from Marcus today it's going to change everything Jen said before he met her family later Marcus said I'm not in love with JY right now but I do have strong feelings for her and I do see a future with us but I also have uncertainty and reservations and I think that explaining that to her family so close to a potential proposal is going to be a difficult thing Tren asked Marcus about himself right out the gate and he shared the story of not knowing his biological parents and being in the foster care system he went on to share some of his experience in the military as the protective brother I was looking for more of him opening up about his relationship with Jen James said Tren and Leon asked Marcus Point Blank if he was in love with Jen I believe that I can get there I know that I'm not right now he said I've been missing this feeling of certainty and that makes me unsure I want to get there for her the only reason I'm struggling with it is because of how much pressure I put on myself to be a good husband and good father to be be able to provide the things that I didn't have when I was growing up and to be able to provide the things that Jen didn't have when she was growing up Marcus added the feelings that I have for your daughter are real and I do believe we can get there Jen later explained that she believes some of Marcus hesitation has to do with the trauma of how he was raised but James was not so sure and worried that Jen would be repeating her past of falling for emotionally unavailable guys regardless of what she does James told her he's super proud of her James isn't messing around as a big brother you know my role here is to definitely grow the guys he said and he kept to that grounding Vibe when Devon asked for his Blessing to propose to Jen Jen keeps me grounded Devon said we've been through a lot of things similarly with our relationships and you know I only want to do this once and I want to do it with the woman that makes me the happiest you know I would really love to have your blessing to propose to her James quickly turned down that request telling Devon he's glad to have been asked but can't give his Blessing until he's met Marcus