Reese Withers spoon and Oliver Harmon were spotted holding hands for the first time since their Whirlwind romance began the Legally Blonde star and the German financier confirmed their romance while vacationing in New York City on Wednesday wither spoom and Harmon were photographed leaving their hotel and walking toward an SUV as the actress held onto her bow the morning show star Von a May black dress with a kudat neckline and black heels she appeared to be in good spirits during the outing as for Harmon he dressed up in a Navy colored blazer a blue button-up shirt chalky pants and brown dress shoes over the weekend the couple arrived in the Big Apple alongside Witherspoon 20-year-old son Deacon who she shares with her first ex-husband Ryan philli and her 11-year-old son Tennessee whom she welcomed with her second ex-husband Jim to the big little Li star and the businessmen were first romantically linked in July when they were photographed on a dinner date at lusi in the West Village at the time sources told the Daily Mail that Withers SPO and Harmon had spent the entire weekend together and had been secretly dating for months another Insider however told people that were just friends and the mom of two was taking things slow when it comes to dating the source shared she enjoys it but doesn't want it to be a big Focus she's busy with work and her son these are her biggest priorities