in a shocking turn of events Jen Tran confronts Devin ster for the first time since he's healing ended their engagement over the phone after receiving the final rose on The Bachelorette season 21 finale Jen and Devon's relationship quickly fell apart during the after the final Rose special Jen reveals How Deeply hurt she was by Devon's actions she says ending the engagement over the phone was already painful but waking up the next day to see you following other girls on Instagram especially Maria jorgus was just disrespectful it felt like everything we shared meant nothing to you Devon tries to apologize admitting I know I failed you and I regret it deeply but my feelings for you were real Jen doesn't hold back in her final words to Devin saying I hope you learn that your words carry weight and if you make a promise you need to stand by it when I love someone I cherish and nurture that love I don't just throw it away