Chapel rone has gone online and is not likeing don't call me Kaye are you don't call me Jess I'm not a full don't call me je you know what it is it's when people walk up to me and they go hey Jessica and I'm like nobody calls me Jessica so I'm a little spooked instantly do you know what I mean I think it's because it's not a name that I go by anyway so if someone calls me Jess I'm it does feel a little intimate but I'm never like yuck yeah um I think it's more just like I often think that it is an indication that that person really wants intimacy with you and so it more just like helps me set the tone for the I think people come at you with energy and you have to learn what those people need I've had a lot of different experiences in meet and greet where some people want to be your best friends some people want to cry in your arms you know it's like you have different people with different needs and so when someone calls me by my government name I'm like oh okay you want to know me and I have to like whether it's yeah whether it's like keep a little bit of a guard up to like see what's going on here so um yeah I'm not like I don't call me that girly but I do think it it gives me an indication of where we're at it's level a level set like you know what to how to proceed with the interaction we had a we had a joke on tour for a while because a guy came up to me and he goes hey Jessica and all of us were together and we all went like all like who is that who are you so speaking to and so in my band for a long time would be like hey Jessica yeah it's really insane so stupid