do you feel more exposed like doing the Press circuit for something like this where invariably it connects with your personal life and people like me will connect it and like you know you're a private guy generally in the past and now with something like this you know you've chosen and it rightfully so it makes sense for what what the story is to connect it to your own experience to a degree but do you feel like it's it's been an interesting experience for you to have to open up yourself a little bit more completely I mean it's been a complete Game Cher and um I'm sort I mean and entirely grateful for it um I yeah otherwise wouldn't necessarily there wouldn't be any reason for me to talk about my sexuality I I really strongly believe that it should be secondary to the work but um the fact that um I have means I've had end endless sort of energy doing it and and it's really exciting to talk about um I dread and fear the moment that you know you'll have to do a press circuit for something that doesn't feel so connected but I do think Ron has spoiled it um spoiled it for for Matt and I because it set the bar so high for something that's so rich and detailed and and you know I'm incredibly proud to it's not it's not at all a worry to talk about um how I relate to it um and yeah I think it's I'm all I experienced press in a very different way because of it so I'm I'm yeah I'm glad I'm glad