in The Bachelorette season 21 Marcus shawber a 31-year-old Army Ranger veteran emerged as an early favorite connecting deeply with Jen Tran his vulnerability and resilience won over both Jen and viewers particularly when he shared personal struggles from his past however during Hometown week Marcus revealed doubts about his Readiness for an engagement despite telling Jen he was falling for her Marcus's hesitations should have prompted him to self- eliminate as his uncertainty about proposing became evident instead he accepted a fantasy Sweet Rose misleading Jen about his true feelings this decision has sparked criticism as it deprived Jen of the chance to choose someone more committed and genuine as the season nears its finale Marcus remains in the top three despite not being ready for the serious commitment Jen desires his actions have raised concerns suggesting that he should have exited the show after realizing he wasn't fully invested the upcoming episodes will reveal how the situation unfolds but many believe Jen deserves better than the uncertainty Marcus has brought to the table