[Music] then Affleck is seen for the first time since ex Jennifer Lopez was pictured holding hands with his BFF Matt Damon Ben Affleck was spotted going for a ride in Beverly Hills on Tuesday 4 days after his estranged wife Jennifer Lopez was seen holding hands with his pal Matt Damon the Batman star 52 sported a pair of black aviator sunglasses and rocked a smattering of facial hair for the ride it comes after eyebrows were raised when Lopez and Damon 53 were spotted holding hands during a private moment at the Afterparty for the premiere of Unstoppable held at the Toronto International Film Festival on Friday night the Jenny From the Block singer and the born Identity star had their heads close together and look serious as they engaged in a reported 20-minute conversation later it was reported that Matt refused to talk to Jennifer about Ben at The Bash with sources claiming the actor made it clear that he will always have Ben's back Lopez was said to be Keen to talk to Damon about her estranged husband in the wake of their divorce but Damon was reportedly not having any of it Matt shut down any attempt that JLo made to discuss Ben at the premiere an Insider told dailymail.com exclusively it was her timing that was so awkward because she would have known that pulling Matt aside at the event to have an intimate talk was going to get picked up and go viral The Source continued her whole hand on his hand was a nice touch but he was not having any of it