even really I don't remember really discussing it so much where we came to an agreement we just all went the way of Lydia and dilia have come to a new place you know I think both uh you know Jenna as and uh and dilia really care for wiona for Lydia and and are worried for her she again in kind of a weird place in her life and we can see the direction she's going and and I think that allowed us in a way