Bachelorette Jen Tran admits it felt so good going off on Sam mckin at men tell all on The Bachelorette men tell all Jen Tran expressed her satisfaction at having the opportunity to address Sam mckin directly she mentioned that watching the show back provided her with a clearer perspective on their interactions and the Dynamics of their relationship Jen felt the need to respond to comments Sam had been making online particularly about being edited in a negative light during the episode Jen confronted Sam about what she perceived as his blatant disrespect to everybody and his focus on himself throughout their relationship she criticized his response to the show's portrayal of him arguing that he should take responsibility for his actions rather than blaming the producers or the editing Jen expressed her desire for Sam to grow and learn from the experience emphasizing that his current attitude would not serve him well in future relationships Sam in his defense acknowledged that he had taken accountability for his actions and expressed regret for losing himself in certain moments he thanked Jen for helping him recognize the walls he had built around his heart and stated his intention to approach his next relationship differently Jen expressed her hope that Sam's words were sincere and not just for show Sam also mentioned that he had been struggling to watch the season and clarified his use of the word dull during their breakup stating that he was referring to the lack of energy he saw in Jen's eyes additionally Sam admitted that he and other contestants initially thought Daisy Kent or Maria jorgus would be the bachelorette subscribe the channel and hit the Bell icon for latest updates