I'm going to be honest I iing hated North Carolina growing up there um being queer in the South anybody who's queer in the South knows it's not easy it's really culturally it's in a completely different place than like the bubbles in the cities that we live in um and I always knew that I didn't belong there and that I belonged in these spaces where I can like be myself and like not feel like a there's a Target on my back all the time I have now come to love it because I can return there in all my bad bitchery and like know that I'm Fierce and I don't feel like a nuisance for existing in North Carolina now so I I love it now but um growing up there it was it was tough I did not like it yeah