what's the association with Paul is that through assoc like mutual friends Paul um I actually sort of e met him when during lockdown I when I watched normal people and I was so utterly Blown Away there's a scene in that where he I think he's he's having therapy he characters having therapy and he broke down and I was moved by that and I just couldn't I he just took my breath away completely and I was like I've got to find this guy a kid at that point um and I I found him you know through the of social media route and I just got a message to him and I was just like I just have to tell you how wonderful you are and um and and sort of from there was sort of developed a an e e I don't know what you call it relationship and and then I know I know yeah I know I know we're really good really good friends and I um I just I I love I I I just love watching him