Judge Mathis Wife DESPERATE TO DIVORCE but HE wants to FIGHT For HIS MARRIAGE.

okay well I was recording um something to do with judge Mattis I'll put it on the other channel okay I'll pull three cards okay he want his wife wants a divorce he's saying he's going to fight she really don't want to fight she wants to be done so let's see if she'll change her mind okay um let's use this deck here this is the wisdom of the tower deck so Oriental deck looks like that okay three cards what can judge Mattis do what can he do oh that's interesting okay well all right here's the first thing we've got Lake okay and um we're talking about a body of water we're talking about cleansing we're talking about refreshing we're talking about somewhat burying of stuff as well and I say that because I just did a video on Tupelo um Mississippi and also did something to do with uh this town called shakerag in Tupelo Mississippi and a lake and a pond came up there there were of course we were talking about Lake lanir as well in Georgia well the lake card has come up for um for judge matys and his wife this situation so look here there may be some things that they buried hidden uh kind of uh got over very well he feels that they got over very quickly in their marriage the wife may still be dealing with those things that he considers to be water under the bridge you understand there are some things that women hold on to or some of our more sensitive Partners hold on to for a long time and you might think it's okay but really it it hasn't gone from their energy they're still thinking about it considering it and feeling it and you know try as one might to to ignore those feelings and bury them push them you know throw them into a lake and you know add water on top of it and kind of refresh the whole thing it's still very much there it's like throwing something into water and doesn't it doesn't sink it floats you can still see the debris yeah so there's something there that maybe he needs to kind of rehash or talk about with the wife because she might not even mention it to him but he needs to have a think of did he bloody cheat did he cheat on her was did he have a little fling and he considers it to be nothing but she considers it to be something okay all right next card we have here is resist dependency okay resist dependency uh sometimes when I don't know how I don't know if the wife is like independent in terms of her own finances he seems very old school so he'd want to take care of everything take care of the wife the home the bills vacation savings assets whatever whatever they got going on he want to do all that right but it seems as if she's at a time in her life where she wants her own and she wants to also be encouraged to to cultivate her own so whether she want to do something new new project new business or she want to go purchase commercial property she want to do something something that she can call hers so she's married to this high-profile judge and not only is he high profile but he's like a celebrity as well and so we're not really talking about her we're talking about about him what she wants is to be her own person she wants she doesn't necessarily want the Limelight but she it's about her selfworth and recognizing her that she really is the foundation and the pillar behind him you know that we couldn't see and she is you know we wouldn't have judge Mattis if it wasn't for her so resisting dependency is her saying that she wants to she cut cut her loose cut her loose a bit and let her do her thing she feels as if she's not her own person she is Judge mattis's wife and she don't really have much of an identity so these are these are things as well in in divorcing him she can become her own person it is a bit like you know the the Petals of a flower I suppose you know unfurling you know the petals opening up and blossoming she wants to Blossom this is her time to Blossom and she's taking it by force by filing for divorce okay so resisting dependency and we got this Lake here which has very much like hidden feelings there like beneath the surface I need a drink the last card of the three it says you know what to do okay you know what to do so there's something that judge matis is kind of skinning and grinning and ignoring and he's old enough to know that there is another issue that is the kind of thorn in his wife's side he knows what this is about so it's all well and good him talking to TMZ I'm going to fight for my wife she not going anywhere I'm resisting this divorce I don't want to be divorced well you know what the issue is there's another issue and you need to address it with her he needs to address it with her okay so him ignoring things doesn't make it go away there's something on her mind there is a correspondence between these two cards here this Lake card and you know what to do and then also this uh resisting dependency I get the feeling there's something that she really really wanted to do and she felt like she was prevented from doing it and it's really really important to her okay um and I don't know if that's got anything to do with this secret this thing that you know he's very flippant about and it was in the past and it's not been discussed since it's something that's Weighing on her mind and on her spirit and uh she doesn't want to feel like that again she doesn't want to feel uh I wouldn't say vulnerable but she doesn't want to feel like she has to do something in particular I don't know if if he cheated on her whatever and then he said he's sorry and it was just you know he was just being stupid it was just a fling whatever you know I lost my mind temporary insanity type of thing I was such a fool I'm so bloody stupid you know but there there's some women who will sit down and think about it they might think about it for 5 10 years 20 years cuz the question is wh y why you said you loved me why why did you do that but why why did you act this way why did you do that what was it that attracted you to that situation why were you stupid knowing how much I love you knowing how much I'm there for you knowing how much I'm available for you knowing how open and flexible I am with you and all matters to do with our marriage and household and children etc etc why would you still then treat me so flippantly and disregard me something like that you know so he needs to come on back and he needs to address the issue he gives very much his energy is very much uh once it's once we've discussed it once there's no need to go over it again well there is a need if the person still has questions there's there's of course there's a need because the person has to make the the person has to comprehend why you did what you did without any regard for them and and did you think about them did you consider how they might feel but the very strong card here is resisting dependency so I don't know if she if she felt that she had to react in a certain way because she needed him maybe financially she he needed her and a divorce would have looked bad in terms of his career and his peers and you know his uh TV show and just as you know professionally as a judge and also as an Entertainer an actor somewhat if her leaving him would have disadvantaged his career and he kind of that's like some kind of not only is it emotional blackmail but it's like oh my God everything's going to crumble if you divorce me now let's just get over this and get on with our life and so things are not [Music] addressed you see so uh yeah so Lake resisting dependency and you know what to do judge math this okay this is a a reading for entertainment purposes only and I wish them well this has been on Judge matis saying that he's not going to divorce he going to fight for his marriage but his wife wants out inah later alligator