if the rumors are true Kennedy's grounded nature might be exactly what Affleck needs after his highly publicized marriage to Lopez despite his Celebrity Status Affleck has often expressed a desire for Simplicity and genuine connections something that Kennedy's lifestyle might offer however for now all of this remains speculation meanwhile sources close to Lopez say she's feeling blindsided by how quickly Affleck seems to be moving on there's a sense of betrayal as she struggles to process the reality of their split and the speed at which Affleck is embracing his new life recently Lopez has been seen looking more introspective in stark contrast to her usual confident Persona the media attention surrounding Affleck's potential new romance has undoubtedly added to the emotional toll she's experiencing a source close to Lopez described Affleck's exit from the marriage as Swift