If you're having a hard time at college... | Mel Robbins #shortsfeed

[Music] I don't relate to you I don't relate to you oh my god I remember that crying on the bathroom floor at the beginning of freshman year of college if you feel sad right now it doesn't mean you're doing College wrong you're actually doing it right it's a mentally healthy response to miss your family to feel sad to be worried about not finding your people to be overwhelmed by the amount of change and the reason why most people are drinking their faces off and hooking up with whomever is breathing right now is because it's a way to run away from their feelings whenever they're not moving or doing something they have to sit with the sadness or the boredom or the unknown the fact that you're allowing yourself to feel what you need to feel and you're honest with it means you're going to move through this transition faster and in a healthier way slowly but surely things are going to get a little bit better cuz you're going to get used to being there you will find your people and you will start to realize hey I'm actually starting to like it here