the baby in our family just started soccer lessons this week she's 3 years old she went to practice on Monday and uh my husband and I went to see the practice and we're like okay so who is the team mom because I need to talk to them about when I'm gonna bring the snacks you're going to be you're grandma and bringing snacks wow cuz my daughter works she's a nurse she works really long hours and my son-in-law is actually going to be one of the coaches if not the lead coach on this team that's great so there was no team mom uh oh and my daughter's like I'm not doing it cuz cuz her husband is you know going to be the coach she said we can't do both and we got three babies don't tell me you signed up for that no oh good for you no because because you're bter I am bitter your days of being t- Mom are now passed on to the next Generation now I would step up if you know if I were in charge of the babies if they were my responsibility I would do it well come on there's there's plenty of moms there there are plenty of other moms pass it on to the next Generation however they may be like Casey Casey is a mama and she I think she has three kids she said look I want to be the venmo mom I don't want to be the room mom the class mom the nothing mom I want to when you have a need if you need money to buy snacks I'll vinmo you you go buy the snacks you plan the party you do the things that's convenient and nice but still I mean let's carry the well see I don't have a problem with it I don't because there are people that have more time than money and then there are people that have more money than time and if Casey has more money than time and she wants to help you know support in that way that to me that's that's awesome she has a valid point but still I mean still take a weekend and get the snacks or whatever a whole weekend you don't need a whole weekend take an hour an hour yeah okay so go to the Walmart get the snacks go home so I used to be te not team mom yeah team mom but also room mom sometimes right but there was a a room mom I think my kids were like in third grade and she wanted me to bring fruit and so I was like okay well I'll bring some grapes and some strawberries she said however you have to wash the grapes individually because my daughter will not eat them because she has this phobia about unclean grapes and I was like like I mean I get that and I've got the fruit wash and I'll do the whole thing so I went out I bought the fruit and the day before I was supposed to bring it she calls me and she said she's just having a meltdown I'm just going to do the fruit because she doesn't think you're going to wash them right what I was like I'm tapping out when it comes to Scott who does our news it was t-ball I don't think you guys were the team parents but no we just attended the games and you know we were sort of a rotation of bringing the snacks the chips the juice boxes and whatnot but we weren't really the leaders the organizers of all that so what happened what do you mean was there something tragic that happened nothing tragic or anything no it just flowed well yeah well I mean every once in a while you'd have somebody say hey is so and so playing enough or whatnot you know but not really anything uh no drama drama yeah or anything is your life that easy so not at all so you never got upset when one of your kids didn't play enough oh yeah yeah yeah well I would watch I would make sure that he got out there at least an inning and the coaches in his t-ball tried to make sure all the kids played but I was making sure like all right is this coach going to play his son you know the whole game and keep some of the other kids out was keeping a close here come the true colors now Scott I I get it yeah get I was a hawk up there in the back row of the bleachers making sure you know he was going to get in and get make sure he wasn't riding the pine right that's right that's right so when he didn't play oh yeah then what happened what happened yeah well I just you know kept a close eye to make sure that other kids weren't getting more playing time than he should but if they did yeah how'd you handle that yeah come on I never had to really confront the coach or anything but you know I was ready I I was a proud dad I wanted my kid to play ball and get out there so you're scared of the coach I'm getting amped up for you yeah