so my son uh simply asked him after he had served me he said may I please have a cup of i m and the fight attendant didn't hear him so he just he pushed the cart past me cuz I'm in the aisle and I reached over lightly I put my hand up first and I was trying to get his attention and he didn't see it so I Pol lightly tapped him on his shoulder and when I did that he swung his arm around he said don't hit me I think it was the Orange County Sheriff department and they were walking back toward the plane and as they get closer to my seat they they they come straight to me and the agent walks up to me and he he leans over Whispers don't fight it and put the cuffs on me don't fight it and put the handcuffs on you and that moment I felt all of my dignity I felt powerless I felt embarrassed I felt like what the hell is going on [Music]