the chronology of Sophia Bush and Ashlin Harris's relationship Ashlin Harris and Sophia Bush were destined for love in the July 18th edition of her podcast work in progress which featured Nico torella as a guest Bush reminisced about the start of her friendship with Harris the former professional soccer player was approached first according to the actor to be clear our friends were attempting to set her up with someone when I finally asked my partner out I was like if she's ready to date she's FNG going on a date with me I apologize oh dear there's no FNG way she laughed and people were like wait what and she even said to me hold the phone I always thought you were straight and I was like I always thought you were happy but like we're both fi single what are we doing Bush recalled and we were fing cackling because I was like yeah dude I never looked at you as an option and she was like I never looked at you as an option and it was like well it's CZ we weren't options