Selena Gomez responds to reports of Benny Blanco's engagement although Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's love is something special they are not feeling pressured to tie the knot amid rumors that she and the music producer are engaged the Amelia Perez actress commented on whether or not they are considering moving their relationship forward we always ensure that we are safeguarding our possessions but there are no regulations she stated in a September 9th interview with Vanity Fair I want him to be who he is at all times I want to be myself all the time the hands to myself hitmakers comments come several weeks after she first sparked engagement rumors with an August 8th post on her Instagram stories in which she covered her that finger with a strategically placed hard Emoji Selena seemingly put the speculation to rest when she appeared at the season 4 premiere for her Hulu series only murders in the building on August 22nd without an engagement ring on