you know you've talked about your um your partner with um with Ender you know he's his father and seems like you have a new partner and he seems like he is like smitten kitten and I can't like he's just like posting how proud he is of you yeah is my biggest fan I mean is just the cutest and he seems so sweet how is has he been through your process of writing this album how is he with Ender he's the best you know yeah it was really funny you know meeting someone um in such a unique time of my life you know was like I you know I've been dating since I was like a teenager you know and then all of a sudden I'm dating and I'm dating as a single mom and I'm dating as a person who has you know a lifetime illness you know something that's not just going to go away so I have to be really forthcoming about it when I meet people and so I was just like I was really nervous and I I've been saying this for a while but I'm so grateful that as I took that first step kind of back into putting myself out into like the dating pool or whatever which I actually wasn't really trying to do it kind just happened with him but I'm so glad it was him because he's the most like gracious compassionate like uh well adjusted like loving person and I can't imagine anyone like being better to receive me in the state that I was in he gave me so much space to just like grow and to heal he accepted me exactly as I am he's you know he's he's incredible and uh I I owe a lot of why I'm you know back out here like like feeling great and like you know feeling positive and wanting to have fun you know I owe a lot of it to him