bbc three show eating with my ex sees people confront their past relationships over dinner paralympian kadena cox part of the im a celeb 2021 lineup took part in the celebrity special of the bbc three show with her ex tess mcfly who has k dina cox ex-partner tess kadena cox's ex-partner is 35-year-old photographer tess in 2014 she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and he reached out to her with kadena saying on eating with my ex he obviously still had some love in his heart for me she was nominated for sports personality of the year in 2016 and the pair attended the event together according to an instagram post however the relationship ended when a friend told kadena that tess had moved in with another woman on the show tess revealed he had lost count of how many times he cheated on kedina and confirmed he had led a double life both times they had dated he said to camera that he felt her sport came first and boyfriend second and told her that was why he had treated her so badly [Music] she replied saying don't even dare come at me with that this is why we always ended up in these situations because you're the one in the wrong yet still you try and make me feel bad about it how did they meet [Music] the couple first dated in their teens and met through facebook when kedina was talking to tess cousin kdena received her diagnosis after her and test split up but he checked in to see how she was due to their history she said on the show that it was easier to get into a relationship with him knowing he wasn't just there because of her success [Music] is tess mcfly on social media tess mcfly is on instagram as at tess underscore mcfly and uses the platform as a way to showcase his photography his work includes shooting for at body upwoman underscore a fitness studio in leeds and clothing brand at zas boutique