I want to ask you another question that you mentioned about you know being a boss and being so successful and how intimidating that can be to Partners and I'm sure like you kind of just mentioned you've been in relationships where and I have been in it where I've dated guys that I'm like oh my God you're so intimidated by my success and they don't even know how to verbalize it and for a minute if you're not in the best place like I've been there where I for a moment was like oh should I dim myself more should I I've been there I have dimmed right have dimed you Dim because you're like it you you can't see it immediately you also want to play the game play a role not be too much so you're like okay like maybe I should take off this day so he feel what and now I'm taking up space [ __ ] I'm taking up space and it's like you can't win with those people and I feel like it's hard with the there's one girl listening and she's like they're talking to me I have to go they're talking to me I have to get out of this relationship but that's what's so crazy about this show is like I legit Katie have people after this will DM me being like you guys were talking to me like if you are with a partner that is so intimidated by your success and you keep making yourself smaller you're not with the right partner have you ever heard of someone say your partner should be saying I'm so proud of you babe can I do anything to help you I'm so proud of you even if it sounds like even if they're saying it like they're clocking in sometimes they're like cuz you know this is my love language you know vocalizing it's like thanks for saying it I appreciate it and not making it feel like oh my God I have to quickly finish because like he's going to be mad like or I have to hide my success or I can't celebrate I've been in relationships where I've had number ones where like I've been you know or or or won things or got into like big parts of my life or made my first like million dollars or whatever where I like do I tell them do I not tell them like do like do I just slightly like you know what I'm saying like it's crazy yeah but and and know what's crazy is like you're sitting here and everyone in the world is like you're so successful you financially career-wise you know with your life they must so many people I bet are like you had to dim your success for man it literally comes up and everyone everyone everyone it's a human experience nobody yeah I mean I mean I also remember I wasn't born into any of this like this is like all a product of my of my talent and my hard work and my hustle you know so like not that not that people that were born into something don't have that cuz they do cuz they they actually have a bigger crust bear and they have to fight in a different way I think everybody has to play this human game whether they like it or not insecurity and like going through the waves of a career you referenced earlier witness and in 2017 You released witness the album and it didn't chart as high as your other ones and I think this is also going to be helpful to other women listening of like in moments where you are competing with yourself and comparing yourself to what you've done in the past vers oh my gosh this didn't do as well like how did that affect you and your selfworth and your career and like where was your head out during that time oh it was just universe's way of saying oh you preach a really strong message of self-love let's see baby so I was like oh okay here's the real lesson let's see and it's interesting I heard like when ships you know big these big ships out in the ocean they go off one degree off chart they land on a different continent and yes like at that time things were changing by like small degrees and I felt like I was on a different continent because I had only experienced you know my before success it was like am I enough I'm gonna show you proof proof proof I was right whoa I was [ __ ] right let's go and then it shifts and it changes and it settles for everyone there's maybe a couple it doesn't but like it settles it does and hold on tight because life is all about Peaks and valleys hi Daddy gang thank you so much for watching this video keep in mind that was just a little clip from the episode if you want to watch the entire full video episode it is linked below it's the first thing in the description go watch it it's a great episode love you all I will see you next Wednesday