from all of the interviews that I've been doing all of the women who are probably always going to see things through the lens of a woman feminist women's group you know it's like I don't care if the woman is wrong I don't care what she doing what she asking for what she trying to get in alimony trying to crack the preup trying to get this for child support I don't give a [ __ ] how wrong she is most women are always going to see things through the lens of women so I feel like we're in a real place right now