you were famously married to Meg Ryan for a decade and you guys were build as as Holly one of Hollywood's golden couples and I wonder did all of that attention put strain on the marriage and in addition to be brutally honest how about the fact that she was at that particular Point more famous than you were how about how about that it's when I met Meg uh I was here as far as career thing and she was here and then it just went like like that and which you know I tried to be a big person and tell myself that didn't bother me but you know every people are human and uh you know she was ascending as as I was went into rehab and Meg is really such a a great sweet person and a really talented and deserved all her success but uh I don't regret anything about my marriage uh to mag and you know we uh we got Jack Quaid out of it who is really going on to maybe uh I think uh eclips up both of us let let's hope so that's all you can wish for as a parent your kids do better than you