and even when you get older you don't have to obey your parents after you have gone away from home and you're 21 or 22 if you don't have to obey them and everything but you're always as long as you live you to honor your parents you to honor your parents even when you're up in years and then when they get old you to take care of your parents you don't hand them over to the St and get rid of them you know we have a we have everything turned around in America from the rest of the world if you go out to China you go to Japan and places like that they honor old age they look forward to the day when they can take care of their elderly parents we try to get rid of them it's a part of our selfishness it's a part of one of our sins we are to love our parents