I am honestly doing really great starting off 2024 I'm feeling confident feeling strong my kids are doing well it feels like a new beginning for us and you know of course we're still going to have lows and still have moments but it really feels like we're in a new trajectory and like a new chapter for ourselves that new chapter Now featuring a little more love as Allison Hulker soft launches a new romance that's been the biggest lesson for me is learning that I'm not in control of life and that's something that's really hard for me to let go of the So You Think You Can Dance judge sharing this pick of two Shadows hers holding hands with a mystery man simply captioning the post with a hard Emoji I know I'm moving in the right direction it's scary sometimes and hard to want to keep moving in that direction but I know I'm supposed to I'm being led and I'm being guided to and I feel like my whole family is Allison debuting her new relationship nearly 2 years after her husband twitch's death I have the sweetest husband in the entire world in December of 2022 the dancer was found dead from a self-inflicted gunshot wound at a Los Angeles hotel after a private battle with mental health struggles Allison confirmed the news to ET at the time in a statement writing in part he valued family friends and Community Above All Else and leading with love and light was everything to him [Music] the couple shares two children together son Maddox and daughter Zia as well as Allison's daughter Wesley from a previous relationship I didn't dance for I want to say almost 5 months after it took me a long time that was something that just was so close to obviously each uh you know of my every memory I really share with Steven there was parts of me that didn't know if I was ready it almost felt like maybe if I dance for the first time it's like my final release Allison has since found her way back to the dance [Music] floor and safe to say she's moving in the Direction She's meant to be you know and God doesn't give you things you cannot handle I'm a firm believer in that and if this is my purpose in the life I am supposed to be living I have to not only learn learn in the best way I can to accept it and learn to appreciate but learn to love it and now learn to move and change others through it