and like you said your family issues you know like if something happens in the family like I'd rather keep that between the family you know you don't need a whole audience of people and opinions because yeah it's hard enough to manage between two [Music] I'm super for long yeah like Hands-On with my child every chance I can be if I could get 60 I would have it yeah I don't tend to get involved when people um say things online whether it's got something to do with me or whether it doesn't um because for me my most valuable thing that I have in life is time and that takes so much time in in in a toxic environment to like explain yourself to people and justify this and so I just kind of keep to myself if anybody um you know of of the same mind would look at the situation I believe that you could respect that like I just didn't want to bring attention to anything you know I just wasn't trying to get into a negative back and forth with her any sort of narrative online where my daughter was going to look back and read that and be able to read into it and it would just be something that was there was no point