say this cuz this is what I say first number one it's Elementary thinking you have not elevated from spiritually Elementary thinking if you still going off of what's on the outside not the inside cuz everybody knows from anything in life if you have any amount of wisdom that what's on the inside always matters most I don't care how nice the veneer on a building is it could be gutted inside right it's what's on the inside I don't care how nicely candy painted a car is if the head gasket is blown and the transmission is out that car is worthless but somehow we know that in every other area of life but when it comes to a woman We Care was on the outside more than the inside they got to elevate mentally