Leah Remy is getting divorced the king of queen star shared the news of her split from longtime husband Angelo Pagan with an Instagram post Thursday August 29th and a lengthy message for her fans in the caption reminy Beginning by writing well here we are after 28 years together and 21 years of marriage we have decided to file for divorce this decision came after a lot of thought and care and as hard as divorce is we are approaching this with a positive outlook because we know it's what's best for us the actress says there is still much for them to figure out but she assures fans that the split is an amicable one going on to say we've been best friends for so many years we are still celebrating holidays together watching our favorite TV shows together and Gathering as a family the two share 20-year-old daughter Sophia as for why the couple is Calling it Quits after nearly three decades together Leah says the answer is not a complicated one to put it simply we both changed as people do and we got used to playing roles that didn't fit us anymore after a lot of effort and consideration we've decided to take this step which reflects who we are today our bond is still strong it's just evolved into something different the 54-year-old says she's being public and honest about the split because she doesn't see it as a failure we think a marriage that lasted this long and created so many beautiful memories especially raising our incredible daughter is something to celebrate from our perspective this marriage was a huge success we want to be as transparent as we can be here because for years we shared our marriage so publicly whether it was on our specials on bh1 or our reality show which ran for two seasons on TLC just last year she re-shared a clip of her TLC show which ran from 2014 to 2015 in which she talked about their sex life what I have learned about my husband over the 19 years that I've been with him if he's sick if he's throwing up if he's had an hour sleep if he has pink eye I mean you name it the solution to my husband's ills is to have sex with him why you kneeling like that like every sex stop being weird sex always helps everything baby no I'm not going to have sex with you right now this camera is here and there I got to go and here's the thing he's always groping me and trying to have SE like he'll have sex with a party downst like I can't have sex with this party you mean get off get off of me but him it doesn't matter just real quick here let me help you which by the way the real quick part is love 3 minutes I'm done you're Angel all right let me just get a feel this the cameras here you're disgusting I wouldn't have it any other way though because I kind of love that my husband always wants to have sex with me so that's a good thing Leah ended her message to fans writing we would love for everyone to have more access to different kinds of relationship stories and not feel so isolated in navigating the changes that millions of couples make every year we hope our journey can Inspire others to see that relationships whether they change or end aren't failures we'll keep sharing Snippets of Our Lives as we navigate this new chapter love Leon Angelo [Music]