Julie Bowen opened up about her parenting challenges on today with Hoda and Jenna revealing her strategy for discussing difficult topics with her teenage Sons the actress has placed informational books about sex and drugs around the house hoping to spark conversations indirectly Bowen who has Sons Oliver 17 and twins John and Gustav 15 joked about her struggles to engage them comparing it to being dumped by three guys despite the challenges she finds that discussing her upcoming roles in hysteria and Happy Gilmore 2 helps m maintain dialogue with her boys what's your take on this approach