unfortunately a lot of people during your life and career will tell you you're not good enough to play for that team and you're wasting your time chasing your dreams and while you need to have a thick skin and be prepared for a lot of criticism never let it consume you think about how many times the pro players hear negative things about themselves oh yeah it's very often and while feedback and constructive criticism is vital for development you need to learn how to not get stuck listening to other people who try to tear you down but whether you like it or not trust me you will keep hearing bad things from the haters as you progress in your career and it's something you'll have to learn how to deal with just like the best players out there do