social media is driving a lot of this anxiety about our finances and so it's important that we kind of take a step back and realize that all these people that seemingly have this perfect Financial life that don't worry about money let me tell you everyone worries about money there is no magic number when you get to a number you're going to be like oh if I only made 10% more I would not be financially stressed but for most of us the money stress doesn't necessarily go away it's a question of learning to manage it and understanding rationally that for most of us we actually are going to be okay