I'm going to explain to you what this amazing book that I highly recommend tomorrow will be different by Sarah McBride what this book has to do with people not wanting to be called cisgender and Sarah writes in this book about how there was a period of time where straight and heterosexual were not words used there words the word gay but not straight and heterosexual because somebody's biology and who they were attracted to were considered one and the same people assumed there was an inherent attration based on somebody's biology and it wasn't until we separated those two things recognize there were two different things to stop connecting them together and so it makes sense to me that people that don't see biology and gender identity as two separate things would not acknowledge a word is this gender or may have an issue with it and so I look forward to the day that we all have an understanding of what gender really