Julianne Hoff and Brooks Lake separate after almost three years of marriage Julian Hoff and Brooks Lake are separating after nearly three years of marriage according to an exclusive statement to people we have lovingly and carefully taken the time we needed to arrive at our decision to separate they write in their joint statement we have a lot of love and respect for one another and we will continue to lead from the heart we respectfully beg your continued compassion and respect for our privacy the split comes as the stars have been social distancing separately during the coronavirus outbreak with lake in Idaho and Hoff home in Los Angeles it's over it's been over for a while and it's time to just call it what it is and it is over says one source with knowledge of the situation there is honestly no ill will he loves her she loves him I can truly say they always will but they both understand they are not meant to go through their lives as husband and wife to each other according to the source Hoff who revealed last year that she is not straight is a deeply different person than she was when they got married she is proud of those differences and changes she's made and she doesn't want to go back the source says he is the man he is and he shouldn't change a thing but they shouldn't spend the rest of their lives together not his spouses anyway