who's the worst that you've ever had when I was 19 and in college I ended things with a guy after discovering he was involved with an older married woman I moved on without a second thought but he took the breakup really hard life continued for me and I eventually started dating again however something strange started happening after about 3 months of dating someone they would suddenly disappear without any explanation it was baffling finally I decided to confront the third guy who was more of a friend to find out what was going on he revealed that my ex had reached out to him suggesting they grabb a beer during her conversation my ex claimed that we were still together and that I was cheating on him with this new guy this put me in a really awkward POS where I had to clarify the truth I contacted the other guys I had dated and they all had similar stories which was quite alarming to this day I have no idea how my ex always seemed to know who I was seeing especially since he lived in a different city did he drive all the way to my university just to keep tabs on me it gets weirder years later he stumbled upon my funny legal blog and started leaving very personal comments even after I blocked his IP address he found ways to post from different locations the last I heard he had remarried had kids and appeared to be happy but honestly he was such a creep