who is your winner I'm actually curious I do think that just by default Devon should get it okay because he's just not slipping he never slip he's the only one who I think is where Jen is like meeting her at that place I think Jen is so like I really believe her when she says she's ready and I it does feel like she's done the work I just don't see it with Jonathan it feels very early stage with Jonathan and then with Marcus I just really can see him hurting her I just don't feel the heat there with Marcus but I just really that Devon has met her at that place to me it's just an energy feel like I feel with Devon the energy is obvious there's never friction there's never just Comfort there's never awkwardness never walls up anywhere it's always fun he's actually shockingly vulnerable shockingly vulnerable he's the classic like tough carries himself like a tough guy but he's so not such a sof he's radically honest that's what you want isn't that what you wanted a man