said holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping it kills the other person first of all that's amazing and I'm pissed off that that I didn't know that cuz that was a real bad moment for me as a black man cuz he said know everything every black man has ever said no no but the way you said it he like you know what Nelson Mandela said and I was like oh we can better be done cuz if you smile fast your lips will bleed I'm on fire bow bowow look look