Sophia Bush confirms the suspected relationship with ashin Harris Sophia Bush confirmed her relationship with Ashlin Harris the actress director and producer wrote a letter in which she recounted her recent experiences including a divorce and coming out as gay at the age of 41. Bush was featured on the cover of Glamour where she wrote a letter detailing her 2023 in her own words Bush discussed the end of her marriage to Grant Hughes and her new relationship with retired professional soccer player ashin Harris when discussing her new relationship Bush revealed that she and Harris began as friends it took them some time to realize that the feelings were ANC I didn't expect to find love in this support system I don't know how else to say it other than I didn't see it until I saw it she wrote and I think it's very easy not to see something that's been in front of your face for a long time when you'd never looked at it as an option and you had never been looked at as an option what I saw was a friend with her big happy life and now I know she thought the same thing about me