do you ever really come back here yeah all the time I had an amazing day with Jeremy we had so much fun together and I'm excited to see the people who gave him his sense of humor because I do feel like there is a lot more to uncover nervous a little but it's okay nous no I'm excited I'm excited mostly he'll do great Jeremy hasn't expressed this feelings to me yet so I want to make sure that Jeremy is going to be ready for everything that comes at the end of this I think I hear them Jeremy everyone me it's really great to just see everyone they're all so excited to see me but also me with Jen oh she made this oh thank you so much so nice to meet you you my God Jen will be meeting my mom Karen her husband Michael nice to meet you hi my older sister Lindsay her fiance Alex and my younger sister Emily I could never get engaged without introducing Jen to my family so I want to see how Jen really fits in with them so the important question had you guys meet it's funny I was um I was standing by bit this big mansion as I as I as I usually do sometimes and he walks up to me and you want to tell the rest of that story we want to hear you know I came up in in the sports car introduced myself and I was like you know I know what they say about you know guys who drive these kinds of cars like over compensation but I just wanted to let you know that I have like a really big like a really big that was my face too well I knew that if she if she wouldn't take that seriously then that's a great start at least you could tell he's got balls Jeremy and and they have a good like sense of humor back and forth they were cute together they were sweet together but when she was named The Bachelorette she described what she looks for in a guy and I said to myself that is not Jeremy I'm glad you guys going to meet Jen every like minute with her has been so much fun and I'm I'm glad she's here right now che che Jen and Jeremy seem to kind of compliment each other pretty well Jen mind if we have a quick talk yeah let's do but I am just really curious as to if she sees a future with him and if they're really serious about this how have you known that Jeremy is somebody you've been interested in as opposed to all the other guys that you're seeing with Jeremy like we always have such a good time together and we have like the best laughs together so it's been really great to have somebody like that and to feel so myself there's something really special there but we haven't expressed our feelings to each other yet so I don't really know exactly where his head is at in all of this he tells me he doesn't have walls up and he's like he's like an open book but I do think he's holding back a little bit do you think that Jeremy's like ready for everything that's coming at the end of this do I think he would be ready to get engaged in just with the timeline of you guys dating maybe not but I mean I think that he probably does want a partner who will um make him happy and like fulfilled in life Jeremy can be a little bit guarded he takes a little bit of time but when she told me that they hadn't really expressed their feelings for each other I did feel like that was a benchmark that I would have liked them to hit already they have some more conversations that they need to have and just kind of lay it out on the table be open with each other do you really feel like you could see a future with her yeah I do um we'll see how the next few weeks go but I've just never like been like so happy around someone and like been myself um which I did not expect coming into this but I have been so I could ask for anything else you spoke with Jen I did how was that it was good I asked her what she liked about you she said that you were funny which I said you don't have to lie and then I asked um how she felt about you mhm and she said that got some walls up my guy she said I have walls up yeah I don't think I do I mean I think you can be a little bit guarded guarded it is a bit shocking that uh Jen thinks I'm guarded only because I've been so confident in me and her pretty much this whole time she had kind of said that you guys hadn't expressed really how you felt about each other like the depth of your emotion even though I've been trying to be my vulnerable self it takes me time love you love you I'm not going to sit here right now and say like oh I'm going to propose to her tomorrow like I'm taking it day by day right now so tell me where are you at with everything um I'm very happy with everything I'm fully comfortable around her and I've been like that since the first time we chatted which is huge for me cuz I'm not that way with everyone like I've never had so much fun with one person so you've had fun together yeah have you talks about anything else seriously like yeah I didn't like feel the needs like rush into deep stuff it'll obviously come up um but I think just the fact that like we are always making each other smile how about effortlessly yeah but it's one thing to have fun like do you feel that you know her well enough that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with it's it's not a game it's not a show it's your life and me and her have talked about that like we both only want to get married once we only want to get engaged once like it's we understand it's a big deal I mean she's dating three other guys at the same time I know but she likes me the most it makes me feel better confidence she she was dating 24 other guys at the beginning I don't know if that makes me feel better I'm saying seriously I want you to think long and hard what you want going forward cuz this is such a commitment oh really yeah and she seems like a nice girl but you barely got to talk to her yeah so I'm skeptical just because I don't even know if it's love because I don't know that they really discuss how they feel so if it's not love it definitely shouldn't be engagement so I just wanted to know where your head's at and cuz you're dating Four Guys which has to be crazy like keeping everything in order um how's it been with Jeremy compared to the other guys or how he stands out yeah I mean that is a big question it is hard to compartmentalize everything and I never thought I'd be someone who's in a relationship with four different people but we just can always have the best time but he also is a mushball and I know that he cares and he's thoughtful and he's there for me but this is like not a game it's it's your future together you think that you and Jeremy have a bond that really goes beyond the fun part of it he wouldn't be here if I didn't think that he could be a life partner for me but I do think sometimes we can get a little bit too comfortable in the fun and that does scare me a little bit like do you think he could be ready for an engagement at the end of this I just met you no so it has a lot to do with you as a couple I think if it was the right person he could be ready yeah but like I don't know how you two really are together and it just worries me that this is hopefully a lifetime commitment you know if you end up getting engaged you really only want to do it once if you can you know it's not so that worries me Jeremy's mom is unsure if he's ready for an engagement and that definitely is not encouraging I wish you good luck on your journey and then who knows we'll see all right it scares me that she doesn't seem super hopeful about the relationship thank you guys so much seriously by by right now I'm feeling a little conflicted I guess I wonder if Jeremy I Can Go the Distance or is there just something missing with us I don't really want to say bye to you me neither I know we had the best day um but there is an engagement at the end of it this and I feel like things are flying by we're we're doing so well and we are really on the right track and I guess my concerns for you is like are you ready for that yeah and like what I told you last week is true like I'm I'm ready for it with the right person and like my feelings for you have gotten like so strong you make me happy and like my sisters kept asking my mom ass and I'm like yeah like I've been so happy because of her and I know I haven't told you this but like I am falling for you like I just love being I love being with you like genuinely that just makes me so happy I feel so close to [Music] you when I say I'm falling for Jen it means that I love being with her and I can't imagine not being with her I was confident with me and her coming into today and I'm more confident coming at it today and I really do think she's feeling the exact same way hoga you're a joke I wanted to hear him Express how he's feeling about me this is a huge step for both him and I I know a life with Jeremy and would be so great we'd have so much fun together but I don't know I think today has been hard having his family be so skeptical if Jeremy was ready for this engagement definitely left me with some questions we only have such little time left I'm just hoping that Jeremy can get there with that time