how did you meet we met uh through mutual friends a friend of ours was having a sort of a party at their restaurant bar and we sort of and it was literally that happens that happens I go out all the time I never meet anyone got to do IRL you got to hang out with me I'll be your wing person I'll take you around let's do it all right I'm in by the way the one of the few last times I went out was at your bar Ray that's right we went to raay um okay so you met what was the first impression the first impression was wow and then a friend of mine who was with me literally the quote was said that's that's the one like we hadn't even met yet and I was like she's so sounding so bad went over and started talking and things like that and it progressed and how did you know that you wanted to as they say in Wedding Crashers lock it down I don't know it's one of those things that just develops I don't know how to explain it