you know what they say revenge is a dish best served cold but JLo didn't just serve it up she's got a Michelin star in it so what do you want to know about that she showed up at the Toronto International Film Festival premiere of Unstoppable not in some typical Revenge dress to make a point but with something way more intriguing up her sequin sleeve and believe me it wasn't just the outfit that turned heads and stirred the pot yes I what do you want me to say but before we spill the real tea let's talk about that dress it went viral faster than you can say fashion police with people calling it everything from two sequin table runners tied together to downright tasteless but honestly I don't see the problem she's got a fantastic body so why not show it off if I looked like that I'd flaunt it too it's about a big booty now let's talk about the real drama while her ex Ben Affleck was noticeably absent from the event even though he's a producer of the film his best buddy Matt Damon was there getting very friendly with j llo and by friendly I mean they were spotted having a long deep conversation while holding hands um how do you like them apples there's not enough liquor in the world for you to get me to say something about that yep you heard that right Ben's lifelong BFF practically his brother cozying up to his ex-wife if that's not a plot twist worthy of a romcom I don't know what is Matt's a beautiful guy loving that he's my best friend he's been great to me my whole life he's a brilliant guy now if you've been keeping up with Hollywood bromances you know Matt and Ben go way back like childhood besties who broke into Hollywood together and even shared an Oscar for Goodwill Hunting my first impression of Matt was that he was very tall and my first impression of Ben let's see he would have been 8 years old so he's very blonde very very blonde so seeing Matt and J L having what looked like a heart-to-heart while holding hands no less makes you wonder is this JLo's ultimate Revenge stealing his best man wow that's impressive you sure that's fair fair to home and let's not forget Matt's wife Luciana was right there at the party too according to reports Matt and JLo looked like they were having a pretty serious chat in a quiet Corner away from prying eyes what were they talking about about JLo's outfit choice or maybe all the divorce drama who knows but the camera sure loved it there's no pain of failure like going through a divorce and speaking of Juicy moments Hollywood Reporter captured Lopez at the Afterparty chatting with her co-star Bobby Cannavale where she threw out I'm a bad picker now is she talking about her choice in men if so let's take a trip down the memory lane and see what all of Jennifer's exes said about her oani Noah Jennifer's acting career had just taken off in 1997 after the release of the film Selena that same year she married her first husband ojan Noah unfortunately the marriage was short-lived and the couple divorced just 11 months later this is good for me this is not good for me you can't accept anything that doesn't feel right to you in your soul following their split Noah was planning to publish a tell all book which was going to reveal all the intimate details of their relationship Lopez filed a lawsuit against her ex-husband that she won and prevented him from releasing the book and subsequently criticizing denigrating casting in a negative light or otherwise disparaging her reputation although Noah's book was never released he did divulge some details about their relationship in a YouTube video where he said the wedding was very crazy I love the fact that I got married because I was totally in love I was crazy in love we were totally in love following Jennifer's marriage to Ben Affleck in 2022 Noah shared his reaction to the nuptials I wish her and Ben the best but I'm not convinced it will last Shawn Diddy Combs Jennifer and Shawn first started dating towards the end of 1999 after they met on the set of her music video if you had my love when I first met him I was making my first album and he he gave me a lot of insight into music business he had been in the music business a long time and so he helped me a lot the pair attended the 2,000 Grammy Awards together and their romance made International headlines while they made an iconic couple unfortunately things behind closed doors weren't So Glamorous the singer suspected Diddy of being unfaithful during their 2-year relationship and she felt like she lost herself in the Whirlwind of distrust looking back on their relationship Lopez admitted it was the first time I was with someone who wasn't faithful I was totally crying crazy and going nuts it really took my whole life in a tail spin I never caught him but I just knew it was just this whole thing that was happening that I didn't even realize was happening the couple broke up at the end of Valentine's Day in 2001 although they had a rocky relationship years later the pair have nothing but respect for one another love is going to help you get some change we going to just spread This World With Love Diddy shared I've been blessed to go out with a couple of great women and she was one of the great ones Chris Jud Jennifer met Chris Jud on the set of her music video Love Don't Cost a Thing and they fell hard and fast for one another just 7 months after her breakup with Diddy she and Chris tied the knot in September 2001 unfortunately after less than a year of marriage Jennifer filed for divorce after their breakup the singer shared that she and Jud didn't have what it takes to make the marriage work she admitted I loved Chris still love him he's one of the the best people this wasn't an easy thing to walk away from adding that the last thing she ever wanted to do was hurt him in 2014 Jud explained that it was difficult being married to Jennifer because of her Celebrity Status the lack of privacy around their relationship and the constant media storm were overwhelming and took a toll on their marriage he admitted that he didn't feel like a normal person anymore and even described their wedding as a circus because so many people had been trying to sneak into the ceremony he also commented on Lopez's history of breakups saying I can't give you the answer as to why her relationships don't work adding when you sign up to get married you can't just walk away gosh you know I just wish you the best Ben Affleck Jennifer fell head over heels for Ben Affleck on the set of the film gie in 2002 I'm sorry do we know each other while the film may have been a box office flop it's what brought these two love birds together soon the couple was dubbed benifer and the tabloids couldn't get enough of them they announced their engagement at the end of 2002 and planned to get married in September of the following year the couple postponed the wedding for a few months hoping that the media storm would eventually die down but unfortunately that never happened Jennifer and Ben broke up at the beginning of 2004 following their split Jennifer opened up in an interview saying I think different times different thing who knows what could have happened but there was a genuine love there years later Affleck admitted I would say media attention was about 50% of what destroyed our relationship he added that he and Jennifer had become overwhelmed by the opinions that everyone had about them and the pressure of public opinion became too much Lopez admitted that her breakup with affle was her first big heartbreak it was so painful after we broke up it was the biggest heartbreak of my life Ben went on to marry Jennifer Garner in 2005 they welcomed three children together before official divorcing in 2018 Mark Anthony Lopez didn't waste any time crying over Ben after they broke up the singer quickly moved on to date Mark Anthony whom she'd already known from the time they recorded no me ases together back in the 9s the couple got married in June 2004 just 5 months after her split from Ben and a week after Mark finalized his divorce from his first wife dianara Torres for a while it seemed as though Jennifer finally had her happy ending the couple wel welcomed twins Emmy and Max in 2008 and were Overjoyed about becoming parents however in 2011 they announced that they would be getting a divorce and their 7-year marriage came to an end cuz this was the fairy tale marriage right this was the one yeah it was supposed to be and I you know I had waited so long to have kids talking about the reason for their divorce Anthony said I'll tell you that it wasn't something sensationalistic happening it was a realization on both our parts so you know it wasn't shocking these these things happen it was a decision that we made jointly thankfully the pair amicably parted ways and were committed to co-parenting their children and being supportive of one another in 2017 the former couple collaborated on a Spanish album poor primiera vez Jennifer later said that working with Mark again had repaired certain parts of their friendship that had been fractured from their marriage and subsequent divorce in a 2021 interview Mark shared that he has changed since their divorce and he learned so much from her about what it meant to be a committed and hardworking partner Mark just wants Jennifer to be happy and fulfilled following her reunion with Affleck in 2021 Anthony has shared that as long as Ben keeps her and their kids happy he gets the stamp of approval Alex Rodriguez former New York Yankee player Alex Rodriguez and Lopez First crossed paths back in 2005 over 15 years later the pair reconnected and started dating I mean even just your nicknames A-Rod and JLo it's like you were meant to be together looking back on the day he was reunited with Jennifer Alex shared I describe it as the luckiest day of my life in 2019 things got serious when Rodriguez asked Lopez to marry him while they were on holiday in the Bahamas the couple was well on their way to making wedding plans but unfortunately the international pandemic forced them to put their nuptials on hold at the beginning of 2021 rumors started to spread that Alex had alleged ly cheated on Jennifer in April of that year the pair announced that they'd parted ways the former couple said in a joint statement we have realized we are better as friends and look forward to remaining so some people try to like dull you down or or you squish you down and he's so not like that and it's just so refreshing just 3 months later Lopez confirmed on Instagram she'd gotten back together with Ben Affleck following their breakup Rodriguez said I had 5 years of an incredible life and partnership we learned so much and now we have the opportunity to take that and move forward and say you know what we're so grateful for the Last 5 Years how do we make the next 5 years better because of Lessons Learned in 2022 Alex described Lopez as the hardest worker and the greatest performer in the world today adding I wish her and the children who are smart and beautiful and wonderful I wish them the very best now what do you guys think is Jennifer really a bad picker when it comes to men or were there some right guys at the wrong time situations in her love life drop your thoughts in the comments let's hear if you think JLo's got a case of bad luck or if she's just looking for love in all the wrong places